BDSM Guide: Sadism & Masochism

BDSM is shorthand for the "BDSM Style" acronym. It describes various erotic sex acts between consenting adults who engage and exchange power and submission, often between dominant and submissive. The BDSM world includes more than just sex (i.e. Is sniffing a wet foot massage? Sure, if that gets you off!)

However, BDSM has its own kinks. There is a lot of kink in BDSM, as well as a few fetishes more prevalent than others in mainstream society. The scene of "tying the knot" is a common occurrence in the BDSM scene. In this act, a submissive partner (typically the dominant male) decides that he wants to take control in the bedroom; he wants to do what a partner would normally do in that room, i.e.

The term "tying the knot" refers to BDSM terminology. It involves tying your partner down with a scarf or a headband covering his eyes. The intention is to create a situation where he is unable to see anyone else but you, and in effect to have him lose control. If he resists, you can tell him that he cannot resist because he is either a masochist/saintist. Some people might think that tying the knot is a childish act, especially if they are not familiar with the nuances of BDSM. Some might see it as a display of dominance. This is a sign that the BDSM scene may be on the brink of something wild and sexy.

Today, rope tying is the most common way for a dominatrix or a bdsm partner to take control in the bedroom. Rope tying is the process of tying down the dominant with a device that looks like a noose, and then tying down the submissive with a similar device. It is considered by many to be degrading and demoralizing, but many others view it as the ultimate test of endurance. Sometimes, if the submissive cannot withstand the pain or is defeated, the dominatrix may rape them later in the evening. Although I personally don't consider this to be degrading and demoralizing, I would not recommend rope tying as a form of kinky play.

Masochism is defined by Wikipedia as a type of sexual fetishes that involves being dominated by another person or couple. Most commonly, a masochist is defined as a man who enjoys performing sexually aggressive acts of dominance over another individual, or couple. hier comes from the word sausoten, which means secret. The act of a masochist is not only sexual, but is often used as a means of relaxation and therapy for the people involved.

Sadism is defined by Wikipedia as a psychological state whereby an individual subjects another individual to physical or mental pain. This pain may be caused by inflicting pain on the subject and/or using intimidation or humiliation. Sadism can be seen as erotic. My experience is that sadists enjoy watching adult movies with sadistic sex. Some bdsm internet sites feature sadistic sex scenes as a way of testing whether their partners and/or partners' partners find their fetishes attractive. Sadism is a great way to have fun and explore your fetishes if you're interested in trying hardcore sex.