READ BEFORE MESSAGING

Hi. I get a lot of messages and hate not being able to reply to folks, even if it is to say “thanks, but no thanks”, so please can you help me out a little in the following ways before contacting me:

1) DoN’t rely on like button to make contact, I ignore those automated message. Make a little effort. In what ways do you think we might be compatible, for instance? Maybe a little more about you that isn’t in your profile etc. 

2) Please don’t blind friend-add me. I only add friends whom I have met, so please message instead (see above).

3) Be direct and cut to the chase. I’m not here for small talk, I’m here coz I like being rodgered silly in as many holes as once. :p Admin / organising things is my nemesis so equally don’t be taken aback if my response is, “great, when shall we do this, I’m free at 3:30?”

4) Please include a face picture with your message if there isn’t one on your profile. If you’re so skittish about discretion that you can’t risk sharing a face piccy with someone you’ve not met yet then you’re too much hard work for me I’m afraid! 

ABOUT PRINCEX* LILY

Proper nymphomaniac. Very kinky (submissive, sexually), but my main thing is group sex; threesome, foursomes, etc. Preferably with me the only chick. Not looking for 1:1 unless you’re especially compatible with my other interests and are relationship-material, but a prerequisite of any prospective partner of mine is that they are cool wth group sex. My ideal would be a budding porn producer... *wanders off into daydream...* speaking of, *this* is my number one favourite pice of porn - technically a porn music video: [removed] (shortlink to xvideos)

Also like bondage, but that’s not a first time thing for safety reasons. Love going on cam, used to here and sometimes on (removed)), but it’s dull when solo. I make amateur porn too; am very exhibitionistic. Always looking for good costars, especially ones with additional relevant skills! Usually I have to do everything, literally, so geeks who can make web cams behave and/or wield a camera additionally welcome.

I also like age play and much of BDSM, though am not so into pain. Also into the sissy thing.  I’m non-binary, but my body is female. My brain is a bit of both I think. In a BDSM sense I am very much as submissive and have been into deep protocol play - collar and lead, eye contact aversion, strict roles/rules etc - in the past, but there has been a paucity of Masters in my circles of late at my kind of level.

What I long for most is for a man, or couple, or group, who can artfully strip me of my power, lead me into that little, submissive, wanton headspace, and hold me there for several hours as the sexual fervour of the party builds and wanes. I always like to have peo[le over for a few hours if possible so we can have many goes at it. I loathe it when guys “edge” on hang on forever - it just makes it shit for the girls too chaps, better to dump your load, chill out for 30-60 mins with a cuppa while we have a natter (or while someone else has a go - I don’t need muc recharge time hehe). So if there is no time pressure then guys feel more comfy about letting thing happen naturally and having another round later.

PRACTICALITIES

Dudes, bring condoms. It’s not fair to expect the chick to always have some. Christ, you should be bringing us chocolate and flowers, never mind remembering to bring a johnny! Sorry for the rant but it is a particular bugbear of mine since I don’t like them and generally avoid them (am on PrEP so am vaccinated against HIV and have been vaccinated against warts/HPV1 and Hep B, and I get tested quarterly), so when a guy says he wants to use a rubber then expects me to supply it, well, it irks me. The “don’t bring a johnny and she might give me a BJ to completion” tactic doesn’t work either. Both parties have the right at any time to say, “changed my mind, sorry” especially if the terms of engagement change. I find BJs boring, for me its all about fucking.

I am hoping to get organised enough to have regular parties, but am going to start with a “social and see” kind of approach Ithink. Very interested in others local parties tho!

Oh, if I am online here then it almost certainly means I am horny and up for it, which is pretty much my normal status.

DISLIKES

Body odour or general uncleanliness. I have a shower you may use, but if you’re going to please try to tidy up after yourself. Little things like hanging towels back where you found them etc. *ONCE* in my 15 years of swinging a pair of gentlemen who had come over for a threesome actually did the dishes because I was running late and a bit stressed. Once. I was deeply moved, but it also made me realise what terrible houseguests most swingers are! So guys, easy win there for getting re-invites to ladies or couples, be helpful.

Snogging strangers. Soz, just really not my thing. Since sex is something I have divorced from love kissing passionately is now more strongly linked, thus I need to have some feelings for the person to kiss them. Also, it isn’t a group sex activity (snogging) since it is quite exclusionary.

Stubble. But if you don’t plan to go down on me, which I don’t like anyway as a rule (again, something for 1:1 relationships, but more because then I can teach them - guys’ efficacy at cunnilingus is usually inversely proportional to how good they think they are ).

Submissive men and/or men who want me to put things in their bottoms.

* Non-gendered version of prince or princess.