I asked him what he meant by “going too far” having a good idea of what he meant but he didn’t really get much into it. He just said he doesn’t want this to be apart of his life. He is in therapy, and I have spoken to his therapist about his mental state and whether this would be the right thing for him to do. I got the green light from her. I am also making him sign a release form so I will not be liable. Like I said I normally don’t take requests like this because edge play is a bit too intense even for myself. But something about this guy fascinates me.

You have made great points though. I agree!

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taintedstripperlove:

These days I’ve been spending them as a Domme.
BDSM is fascinating because the people that come to me are seemingly normal. Professionals, and well off yet they need sadomasochism in their life to function properly.

I normally don’t offer edge play because it can get too dangerous and may cause…

[TW: Rape, castration]

While I’m all for castrating rapists (and don’t tell me he isn’t necessarily a rapist; he “goes too far” with women in a presumably sexual way since it’s related to his junk), this makes me really uncomfortable. If that guy thinks the way to stop being a rapist is to get castrated and not by, ya know, not raping women, something is seriously wrong here. Since sex doesn’t necessarily have to involve penis-in-vagina intercourse, there are plenty of ways for a rapist to rape someone even after castration. This is not going to solve his fucked up behavior and it’s *really* scary if he thinks it will.

Maybe there’s more going into it than just castration. Maybe he’s done years worth of introspection and educating himself on rape culture and changing his behavior and thinking and the castration is just a final symbolic way of marking his personal progress, but somehow I doubt that.

[To the OP, this is NOT AT ALL to say you shouldn’t do it. He’s paying for a service and if you feel comfortable, by all means, do it up. I would never criticize you or any other sex worker for providing whatever services they feel comfortable providing, even a service such as castration. Your business is your own business, and like I said, I’m all for castrating rapists. My criticism rests with “Jeff” and him alone.]

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