Touch Session with Massage Exchange & Jacuzzi Soak and "Boudoir Photography"

In Long Beach, on PCH near Cherry, and not far from the 405 or 710.

(Note that this event allows intimate contact, however it is NOT A SEXUAL ACTIVITY event.)

If you plan to attend, please RSVP no later than Noon 9/20.

(For extra privacy, the exact address will be given to RSVP'ers only.)

FYI: You may develop an erection at some point during the event, but that's completely normal - we all understand the way a penis works and sometimes just wants to say it's enjoying things too. (Again, this is NOT a sexual event!)

The point of the event is to make friends with a deeper mutual trust & caring, and it’s OK if you want to look for a boyfriend, too. ;)

This event is essentially the same as what another group refers to as a "puppy pile", where guys can "connect" more closely, allowing some basic contact while (in their group) remaining clothed and not progressing to sexual activity while at the event. (In other words, cuddling, spooning, & basic touch/contact.)

Our "touch session" will allow for a more direct contact, doing the same with your clothing off!

You are free to "connect" with anyone there that you wish, but you must respect their boundaries. If someone is letting their hands or other body parts wander to somewhere you’re uncomfortable with, please either ask them to stop or just take a gentle but firm grip on their hand (or other body part) and move it elsewhere... This extends to those with physical injuries & weaknesses, not just because of the way it makes you feel.

While during the scheduled event, no actual sexual activity is permitted, so we ask you to refrain from lip-to-lip kissing, all forms of penetration, and any actual masturbation or other sexual activity. (If you cannot abide by these limits, you may be asked to leave the event & not return.) We also ask that you help from spreading anything communicable by not touching anyone below their ankles (this can easily create jock itch or athletes ft.), or their buttocks, and if you’ve not showered recently before arriving, please take a few minutes to do so on arrival.

You’re also not permitted to do anything anyone may find painful, including any pinching or more than light squeezing. (Unless we’re talking about massage techniques.)

Keeping the above in mind, it’s OK to touch any external body part that your connection is OK with, including his penis & testicles. -But remember, please keep it friendly & not with a sexual intent during the event.

If you want to do more with your connection, you’re welcome to exchange info and/or go home with one another at any time. (Or wait for the "after-hours party" following the event.)

If you'd like someone to take a photo of yourself posing nude on the bed or other nude poses, you're welcome to bring your own camera OR your president will take a photo with his 8MP digital camera, email it/them to you, and if you desire, the photo will be deleted, and not even used personally. Or alternatively, depending on content, if you allow, it may be used for a future newsletter, or Flickr page (no name or other ID on the photo), or even for a GNI newsletter or even in an issue of G+N Magazine.

If you bring your own camera for use at the event, you must agree not to photograph someone who does not wish it, and to otherwise use it ONLY for personal use or sharing with the group.

As implied by the French word "Boudoir", meaning bedroom, we'd encourage you to feel free to pose in a fashion that you would care to use on an online dating site, to send to a perspective date in email, or similar... Such poses may include erotica, with erections & holding same, but please nothing much more overtly sexual. (Though to be used by the group, the photo must be more of a rated "N" [naturist/nudist tame nudity] variety.)

Pizza will be ordered for delivery around 8pm for around a $7-8 chip-in.

You're welcome to use the shower there whenever wanted (please bring your own soap/bodywash).

Also, as space is available, massage exchange time is available as well. You may use the bed, floor space, or we'd love it if you can bring a massage table! (Let us know in your RSVP, and if you do, we'll give you a discount on the event.)

Bring your own: beverages, towels (1 to sit on at ALL times, plus 1 to dry off with after shower or Jacuzzi & a large/beach towel or sheet if receiving massage), as well as a non-staining massage lotion, gel, or oil and bodywash or soap.

Also please bring snacks (chips, dip, cookies, deserts, or appetizers) to share. (Enter type you'll bring in your RSVP, please.)

If you take the bus or think you might need to crash there, limited space is available to those who may QUIETLY spend the night on a first come, first serve basis. (Mention this when you RSVP if so.)

This location has ample parking.

Cost: If pre-paid by the deadline, a MAXIMUM of $25 for paid members, $40 for non-members; and a student or limited income discount is avail. with membership, or free membership for non-members.

At the door, the rate will be a fixed at $40 for members, or $50 for all others with no discounts, assuming the event is a go and space is still available.

You must pre-pay to guarantee your admission and the lowest door fee. And if pre-paid, you may get in for as little as $15, depending on attendance & your membership status.

Those that RSVP will be given the basic address, but we'll need to call you (or you can call us) with the room # we're renting, so BE SURE to GIVE YOUR PHONE number when RSVP'ing for this event.

An "after-hours party" will be available for 2 hours following the event. (IE: You may engage in safe sex play then only. However, other than oral, no other penetration is allowed with any body part.)

Keep in mind what is not mentioned as off-limits here is OK to touch, as long as the one being touched allows it, that includes his chest, legs, back, shoulders, and yes, even his penis & scrotum, only keep in mind that the point of this type of touch is not to be sexual, but to allow for a better sort of male bonding, possibly to the point of finding a new boyfriend if you both wish, but we want to limit contact to not really be sexually driven so as to keep the event from becoming an orgy and driving some guys away.

To RSVP, please email:
BAMENClub+RSVP+0925@GMail.com
Or click either of:
http://bit.ly/rsvp-hotel
https://bamen.wufoo.com/forms/bamen-hotel-party-rsvp-form/

Our pre-payment policy for any event is if you cancel by the event’s RSVP deadline or if we should have to cancel the event, you will get your money back in full via the same online payment service, or via a bank issued check by mail after your payment has fully cleared. Late cancellations may still receive a refund if others pay to attend in your stead.

At this time, for all events that request pre-payment, you may pay via check or money order (by mail), Square Cash, Square (squareup.com), PayPal*, Bluebird, & PopMoney online, plus we also can directly charge your VISA, MasterCard, AmEx, or Discover credit or debit cards (by phone or in person), or you can pay in person in cash. (Email or call to get our payment address or a location to meet us if using cash.) (*If you cancel or the event is cancelled, there is a $0.50 fee for refunds on PayPal due to the charge they do not refund to us. This fee is not charged via other payment methods.)

All pre-payments are due no later than Noon on the Friday the week before the event for online payments & U.S. Postal Money Orders, and all other checks & money orders are due by noon the Friday 2 weeks prior to the event. Payments in person may and via Square be accepted as late as Noon the Tuesday prior to the event.

BA-MEN provides a drug-free environment, and even things like "poppers" & "420" are not permitted at any time.

All smoking (even cloves & e-cigs) is not permitted, unless you wish to dress and go outside for the duration.