Japan’s New First Lady Not From Venus, Was Only Visiting

Miyuki Hatoyama and her husband Yukio HatoyamaItsuo Inouye/Associated Press Japan’s next first couple, Miyuki Hatoyama and her husband Yukio Hatoyama, last week in Tokyo.

Here’s something you need to know about Japan’s next first lady, Miyuki Hatoyama: she used to be an actress. That may help to explain why Japanese voters were apparently not worried about handing her husband, Yukio Hatoyama, a landslide victory and the keys to the prime minister’s office despite the fact that he is married to a woman who wrote last year that she traveled to Venus in a U.F.O. in the 1970s.

On Wednesday, The Times of London’s Richard Lloyd Parry reported from Tokyo that Ms. Hatoyama, “a musical actress, cookery writer, clothesmaker and television personality,” is given a sort of free pass by Japanese voters because she “falls into the category of public figure known as ‘tarento,’ or ‘talent,'” who are expected to be kooky.

She has apparently been making good use of that pass. As Mr. Parry reports, Ms. Hatoyama wrote in “Very Strange Things I’ve Encountered,” a book published last year, that before she divorced her first husband and married Mr. Hatoyama, she may have visited our neighboring planet:

“While my body was sleeping, I think my spirit flew on a triangular-shaped U.F.O. to Venus,” she said. “It was an extremely beautiful place and was very green.” Her first husband suggested that it was probably just a dream — but Mr. Hatoyama, she insisted, would not be so dismissive. “My current husband has a different way of thinking,” she said. “He would surely say, ‘Oh, that’s great!'”

As Reuters reported, Ms. Hatoyama also amazed a daytime television audience this year with the information that she personally knew Tom Cruise during a past life, when he was Japanese, and still hopes to one day make a film with him. The film, she assured viewers, will win her an Academy Award “for sure,” and “will change your values.” Ms. Hatoyama added that, in his spare time, her husband is helping to make her vision a reality by “translating the script into English even though he is tired after work.”

DESCRIPTIONYukio Hatoyama/Associated Press An undated photo of Yukio and Miyuki Hatoyama in younger, more carefree days.

Apparently Mr. Hatoyama is paying his wife back for her help with crafting his image. The Telegraph’s Julian Ryall noted last month that Ms. Hatoyama, who is 66, now “describes herself as a ‘life composer’ who selects people’s clothes and food — including those of her husband — and designs home interiors.” Mr. Ryall also reported that in a more recent television interview, she “appeared wearing a skirt she had made from hemp coffee sacks purchased in Hawaii.”

The Guardian’s Justin McCurry adds that the couple, who met when both lived in California in the 1970s, seem quite happily married. Mr. Hatoyama says that seeing his wife gives him a boost: “I feel relieved when I get home. She is like an energy-refuelling base.”

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Somebody once said: “Indians accept politicians with vices they won’t tolerate in their neighbors; Americans demand politicians with virtues they won’t expect from their neighbors”.

Seems like the Japanese are like Indians, in so far as not minding a bit of masala with their politicians.

As someone who has lived in Japan, I have a love/hate relationship with these kind of stories, as, while I find them amusing, I also think they fuel a certain view prevalent in America right now of Japan as a bunch of goofy weirdos.

The truth is that these images, snips from commercials, game shows, and all the other stuff that westerners find so weird either tend to be so uncommon that even Japanese people don’t know about them (anime) or they are ripped from their proper cultural context.

Though the article does make reference of the fact that Ms. Hatoyama is a “tarento,” it is not merely enough to say that “tarento” are kooky, they are actually a cross between pundit/comedian/actor/host. Basically there is an entire class of people that is paid to be on tv and part of their job is to say entertaining things. Half the time they are joking and part of the fun for Japanese is that you can never really tell where the line between reality and fiction ends and begins (there are even tarento whose entire image is built on the fact that they are dumb or uneducated. they read chinese characters wrong, hilarity ensues etc). Very few tarento are actually professional actors/actresses even though they do appear in TV dramas. They are used in this way because Japanese like to see familiar faces. So this can’t really be compared to an actor in the US going on TV and talking about their private life. Their public life IS their private life. They are paid to be rich and do things that normal Japanese can’t.

There is also very little in the way of lines betweens professions for celebrities/artists or whatever. Once a person has entered public life, they can do virtually anything they want and are encouraged to widen their portfolio into other mediums. This is why Ms. Hatoyama is described as “musical actress, cookery writer, clothesmaker and television personality.” They start in one place and expand to the others.

LEDE BLOG NOTE: Thanks for adding to the description of “tarento,” but is it possible that, by seeing this as post about the kookiness of Japanese society, you are reading something in to it that was not written above? In fact the post in no way refers to Japanese culture as kooky or exotic. It doesn’t seem to the author to describe or treat Ms. Hatoyama any differently than a kooky American actress, like say Shirley MacLaine, might be treated. And a candidate for the Demcocratic nomination for the presidency last year, Dennis Kucinich, described seeing a U.F.O. with the same triangular shape as the one Ms. Hatoyama recalls. If this story concerned an American or indeed a European or an African actress turned first lady, we would have dealt with it exactly the same way.

I might also add (being married to a Japanese woman) that the measure of a good husband among modern Japanese couples is their ability to listen to the wife and “accept her feelings.” Even if you don’t understand or disagree, you’re supposed to be supportive and come to terms that “that’s how she feels.”

This explains this portion:

“My current husband has a different way of thinking,” she said. “He would surely say, ‘Oh, that’s great!’”

This shows that Mr. Hatoyama is an understanding man and makes him appealing to Japanese women.

Even if you don’t understand or disagree, you’re supposed to be supportive and come to terms that “that’s how she feels.”

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Brad, I think that’s appealing to ANY woman (generally, of course there are exceptions), not just a Japanese one. One of the reasons I love my husband is that he doesn’t try to understand why I’m upset, but accepts that I am, tells me that it’s okay to be upset, and if applicable, will do what he can to right the situation.

Don’t believe these stories for a minute! The Venus spaceship is an ellipsoid, not “triangular”.

Triangular, indeed…..what rubbish! Why are Kucinich and Mrs. Hatoyama spreading this disinformation? Are they in the pay of the Martians?

Brads comment above is spot on, but could be further improved simply by removing the word “Japanese”.

What happened to the rigid royal family of Japan in cultural terms? Are they loosening up a bit?

She seems totally normal to me.

Give me a break. In Japan, the spouse of the Prime Minister would only be seen if needed to meet the spouse a foreign head of state. Unlike the U.S., political spouses here do not figure into the picture at all.

As another member of the foreign community in Japan, I have to agree with Brad’s comments. Everything is always almost taken out of context, and it gives Japan a “unique” appeal to many people.

I for one can’t stand this woman. She had the audacity to compare herself to Michelle Obama (who she is absolutely nothing like in character or experience) in order to promote herself and her husband. Now, she is already talking about campaigning for her son. Meanwhile, I thought that the DPJ was trying to move away from “inheritance” candidates. It’s almost as if he’s been married too long without giving her a grandson or something.

If you have spent time in Japan, you have probably come across women like Miyuki Hatoyama.

They frequently have an artistic, expressive nature which ripens when they spend a little time abroad, particularly in California as Ms. Hatoyama did. Unusual creative women actually have a long history in Japan (Tale of the Genji, anyone?)

What if she’s right?

It could not have been Venus that she visited. Its surface is way too hot for any living thing to survive, and there is sulfuric acid rain.

I think Brad’s point is that “actress” and “tarento” are not synonymous, although you treat them as such. The connotations are quite different. While I appreciate the good-natured tone of this post, a little more research into the differences between Japanese actresses and tarento would have given it greater credibility among your English-speaking audience in Japan.

> I also think they fuel a certain view prevalent in America right now of Japan as a bunch of goofy weirdos.

I agree. Articles in the past few months about Japan have included an article about the increasing popularity of hostessing as a career (the whole hostess bar industry is viewed as somewhat weird/goofy in the US) and another about guys without girlfriends who go around with inflatable pillows with pictures of scantily-clad anime girls on them.

Of course, there are lots of serious articles as well, but the proportion of these weirdo-type articles is probably higher than for any other country.

Let’s also note that Hatoyama – the husband, that is – has threatened to institute policies that value love and cooperation, are somewhat more oriented toward Japan’s local neighbors, and look to a future that is not so oriented toward under-regulated capitalist opportunism. In other words, the new government may be a threat to the status quo.

There are elite in Japan, the EU and the US who would all like to see Hatoyama – the husband, that is – fail. These now widely distributed stories about Hatoyama – the tarento, that is – may be part of an intentional campaign to undermine the credibility of the new government.

LEDE BLOG REPLY: The story is funny, that’s the reason we passed it on — not to undermine Japan’s government.

Re: comments about articles on this blog apparently portraying Japan as being “kooky or exotic”.

I think most media around the world are guilty of this, and as a foreign resident of Japan, this country is no exception. The number of TV shows you see in Japan showing offbeat American incidents certainly rivals, and perhaps even exceeds, the number of cases you see overseas.

LEDE BLOG REPLY: Your comment, and a few others like it, suggest that some readers are feel an understandable dismay about Japanese culture being portrayed as kooky or exotic — but the fact remains that this blog post simply does not approach Japan from that perspective. The new first lady’s quirks are treated as an aspect of her as in individual and as a member of a profession — entertainers — and not a nation. This seems like a reasonable discussion to have, but it would be better to have it in response to a post that actually does treat Japan or the Japanese as exotic or odd. As I said in reply to another reader, Shirley MacLaine or Dennis Kucinich, have gotten and will get similar treatment when they desceube U.F.O. experiences — and neither of them is Japanese.

I also feel that this article among other related ones as Mike K. mentions above is deliberately depicting the Japanese Culture from a biased angle. It’s one thing to exercise freedom of expression, but doing so at the expense of inaccurately portraying something without depth of knowledge or genuine interest is utter ignorance.

Sure, Mrs. Hatoyama might be a bit unique in that most Japanese wives of politicians are demured and walk a few steps behind their husbands. It might have a positive influence for Japan to see more of Mrs. Hatoyama in the limelight, culturally well-versed and flamboyant, qualities that might help lift the mood during the dark economic times.

Anyway, with all due respect to the author of the aritcle, I do think that it was a job well-done from the perspective of provoking the audience, evoking emotions, as journalists tend to do as part of their profession. It is probably also a reflection that Japanese government, politicians are not taken seriously, understandbly so, given their track records.

LEDE BLOG REPLY: Again, if you are going to charge cultural insensitivity, it would seem fair to ask that you point to a single detail in the text above that suggests that this individual’s behavior is related to her culture or nationality. Perhaps you haven’t read the series of articles on this Web site that The Times has written on Japan’s election in recent weeks. The fact that you refer to the blog post above as an “article,” which it is not, might explain why you are reacting to this light-hearted sidebar to our main coverage as if it were the only reporting on what is happening in Japan these days.

I work for a Japanese woman who regularly consults with numerologists and psychics. My American friends think this is weird, my Japanese friends say “very old-fashioned”

I agree that the NYTimes has a particular view of Japan that they want to push. This would be fine if they admitted it. But as the response from them to Brad’s comment indicates, they won’t admit bias against Japan.

LEDE BLOG REPLY: If you are going to make such a charge, please back it up by pointing out what in the post above suggests any view of Japanese society. The post in fact contextualizes the odd beliefs of the new first lady by citing a reporter’s observation that actors in Japan are given a license to be odd. Does it really need to be explicitly stated that actors in other countries, including the United States, also have such a license? Why assume or read cultural commentary into a text that contains none at all? And if you see a wide-ranging bias in The Times, please point to examples from our previous coverage.

She might be on hallucinogens perpetually. But that’s OK. THe world is a weird place with weird people. I am cool with that.

If she is right, then she is a new female Jesus from Japan.

Actually, Yeah Right, the most recent articles in the Times (from before 9/3) on Japan have focused on the regime change, just as this one is doing (in a way).

//www.nytimes.com/2009/09/03/world/asia/03japan.html
//www.nytimes.com/2009/09/02/world/asia/02diplo.html

During my 35 years in Japan I have come to realize that the average Japanese, all western prejudice aside, does prefer to live as the stereotypical “salaryman” or “housewife”; there is comfort in conformity – but it can get a bit boring. That’s why there is a niche in any social setting for the designated “kook”.

These entertainers are given full license to shock and amuse as the alter ego of the restrained collective group. You find them everywhere, not only on odd-ball TV programs; in every school, office, or social group there is inevitably the bizarre character who breaks all the rules to the great approval and amusement of the members who would never tolerate such behavior from anyone other than this designated kook.

Sometimes they are the class clown familiar to any American student, but especially within more mature groups, they can be far more eccentric and, by our standards, down right offensive.

They successful kook is the one who can articulate the frustrations of the group without offending any single member of that group.

Now that Mrs. Hatoyama’s group has been elevated to the national level she may find it far more difficult to avoid offending some of the citizenry. Moreover, we will have to see if the Japanese people can allow her to continue her entertaining role as a kook as she assume her formal role as first lady, (overlapping roles is not common in Japan).

This is particularly important now that her audience includes the entire non-Japanese world.

— Dane Degenhardt, Ibaraki, Japan

I agree with Brad, and with Bridget. Would love to see her try to talk to Michelle Obama face to face.